Aren’t Open Relationships All About Sex?
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You’re in an Open Relationship, so you must be swingers!
Wow!! No that is not the definition of an Open relationship and especially where we define and create our lives. Open Relating is nothing more than being Your true self with your partner and with anyone you relate to for that matter. True without the fear of judgement, mistreatment or drama, mainly because your partner genuinely accepts who and how you are.
Swingers are couples that have sex in and out of their relationship, sometimes privately sometimes in a sex party setting. Both agree that sex is the main purpose of their “other” relationships, not love or commitment to any other person outside the ones in the main relationship.
Is Open Relationships for everybody?
Well once again lets think about this one. Open relating is not for you if…
- If you want to continue with lies, cover ups, and the masks we wear as not to “hurt our partners feelings”.
- If you don’t believe that you will ever be able to truly trust your partner and know truly who they are.
- If you’re ok saying to yourself “why is he/she doing this to us?” about anything!
- If you are constantly thinking “Let me tell my friend what I think, because my partner will get mad if I say that.”
Get the point. YES!! Open relating is for everyone and for every situation where truth and trust are not feared! We create our lives and if we create lies we are living one as well.
Can you share real LOVE feelings with your outside partners?
Of course you can, once you have opened yourself genuinely and truthfully you are able to share more love than you ever have imagined! You are able to receive more too! For me personally, there is no possible way that my feelings can’t get involved. I truly know myself, I’m heart, body and soul with everything I do and give. Knowing this and knowing that I only attract my mirrors ( if you’re not sure what that means click here) I know that the people I relate to will put their heart body and soul into our union as well.
I don’t want nor need a f**k buddy, that is not the reason why Opening a marriage should be discussed. Prime example is one of my lovers, he and I started sexual but now have decided our connection goes beyond that, leaving sex out of it and enjoying our bond spiritually and intellectually. No it wasn’t that sex was bad, it was mind blowing, but we get more of what we need without it. I share feelings with him and he shares feelings with me.
Sex is just sex, So why Open your marriage, if you’re happy Sexually together?
HMMM good one, sex is just sex. Well I’m sorry if that’s the way it feels to some… but here at JujuMama we celebrate sex as creativity! Its energizing and blissfull. Our bodies were made to feel wonderful during sex, ever wonder why? Because it’s meant to be craved, enjoyed and had as often as possible. Do you know that females are the most sexual creatures, ready for sex at all times!? Unfortunately this society has changed that, made us ashamed, afraid of being called freaks, or hoes, or loose.
What will your children think?
They will think what they want to think!!! Everyone will. The only difference is that children will know that there is more to love, sex and relating than any school teaches them. They will not be ashamed of expressing themselves fully, to accept love and relationships with respect. To know that love is not a forbidden feeling that will get you hurt every time. To know that sex is beautiful, and when acted in the right place with the right person it will create a wonderful experience. Our daughters will grow feminine, giving beings, never ashamed of their bodies and their sensual energy. Our sons will understand the power of nurturing a woman, respecting their penises and knowing that sex is sacred not a game in which whoever has the highest score wins.
All in all Open Relating is for everyone. Is everyone ready for it, of course we are. We can no longer as a society fail our families, our partners and ourselves with the constant denial for change. It took centuries for human beings to get to the evolutionized state we are, but our hearts and souls have regressed in growth. We need a change, a change is gonna come.